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LOVE THAT SEES BEYOND THE SURFACE

There was this sister who attended this Bible believing assembly. She was very dedicated to God’s work. I mean you couldn’t catch her doing anything outside morality. Her confidence and poise amazed us. No hair out of place. She knew the right words to say and at the right time….and she knew the Word…She breathes …

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A WORD FOR CHRISTIAN SINGLES

Dear Christian Singles, I have few things to share with you. They are thoughts flowing from the depth of my heart. Most of the things I’m about to say, you know already. So see this as a reminder of God’s expectation for us as singles in his vineyard. Life can be unpredictable sometimes. Certain things …

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SHOULD I TELL HIM HOW I FEEL?

Dear Ife-Grace, Should I tell him how I feel? First of all, I do not have a straightforward answer to this question. It could be a Yes or a No depending on the peculiarity or circumstance surrounding each case. I mean, I have friends who would rather die than open their mouth to express their …

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IT IS NOT HIS FAULT

Have you met Sister ‘it’s-not-his-fault’ before? You haven’t? Alright. Let me make a formal introduction. Sister It’s-not-his-fault is a young vibrant lady. A graduate of physics with high prospects. She is crazy about one tall muscled-six pack brother like that. What’s that his name again? We call him Brother Dan. Bro Dan is the head …

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THIS THING CALLED CONVICTION

Three brothers converge at bro Femi’s house for their usual brotherly chat. For some months they’ve not been able to meet and so this public holiday presented a beautiful time for some deep talk. Femi, the host, sat on the bed and opened the floor when Peter asked him, how far? Now let me tell …

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WHEN THE PRESSURE TO GET MARRIED BECOMES INTENSE

The other day, my friend and I were discussing generally, and then we diverted into life-partner and marriage talk, and from the discussion I realised that for some of the people who are married, the reason they actually made the move at the time they did, was because of the pressure from the society. I’m …

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DOES GOD’S WILL REALLY EXIST?

When a ‘mummy in the Lord’ comes to me and ask, ‘Do you know God’s will for your life?’ I don’t have to wonder if she is talking about career or vision or purpose. She is definitely referring to one thing. A three letter word. Man. God’s Will. Don’t you just like this name? A …

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A LETTER TO THE SINGLE CHRISTIAN GIRL

Dear Christian Single Girl, About ten years ago, I sat in my room and wrote out the things I wanted to achieve before I turned 30. Even though I was very young then, I saw far beyond my age and I could remember that as a teenage girl, I had dreams of running a college …

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