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WHEN THE PRESSURE TO GET MARRIED BECOMES INTENSE

The other day, my friend and I were discussing generally, and then we diverted into life-partner and marriage talk, and from the discussion I realised that for some of the people who are married, the reason they actually made the move at the time they did, was because of the pressure from the society. I’m …

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DOES GOD’S WILL REALLY EXIST?

When a ‘mummy in the Lord’ comes to me and ask, ‘Do you know God’s will for your life?’ I don’t have to wonder if she is talking about career or vision or purpose. She is definitely referring to one thing. A three letter word. Man. God’s Will. Don’t you just like this name? A …

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A LETTER TO THE SINGLE CHRISTIAN GIRL

Dear Christian Single Girl, About ten years ago, I sat in my room and wrote out the things I wanted to achieve before I turned 30. Even though I was very young then, I saw far beyond my age and I could remember that as a teenage girl, I had dreams of running a college …

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WHERE THE FIGHT BEGINS.

Some months ago, my friend and I visited a woman who lived very close to our house. But by the time we came out of her house, we had burning questions in our hearts. Is our worth as wives base on how many dishes we can prepare and how long we can sweat in the …

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WHEN YOU SAY YOU ARE IN LOVE

It was at Dara’s 25th birthday ceremony that Yetunde first met Charles. Something in his eyes pricked her soft flesh and caused a strong desire that she couldn’t deny. Apart from his striking features, she loved the way he moved his body to the sound of the ‘morire’ song. He was free spirited, full of …

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MARRY ME

I am at Farida’s Boutique with my best friend Dupe. I can’t seem to find the perfect gown for this special evening. Yes I want this evening to be special and memorable because Femi is going to propose to me, this special evening. “Kike, look at this one. It’s beautiful.” Dupe says, holding up a …

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THIS IS NOT WHAT I MARRIED.

Bimpe walked me to my black Lexus, hitting her enormous hips against mine as we swayed our locked fingers back and forth. She chuckled and began to run her hands against my muscles and I felt an electric surge run pass my veins. For a second I wondered how God could create something so perfect, …

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