Christian living

HOW TO DEAL WITH LOW SELF-ESTEEM GOD’S WAY

A little girl attends her first day in a new school. A boy sneers at her and says, ‘You are fat like a buffalo.’ The class bursts into laughter. The girl rushes into the restroom to weep while the boy who is himself battling abandonment from home feels cool at the attention he receives from …

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Series

BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED- EPISODE 6

Click to read Episode 5 19th March, 2015. I have done some terrible things in my life, yes. But pushing Stella to carry out that abortion, I had no part in it. I still remember the morning before I was excommunicated from Garden Assembly. I woke up feeling empty. I wanted to start a new …

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BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED – EPISODE 5

  Click to read Episode 4 ‘I watched you grow up in this church.’ The Pastor’s wife started, her buttocks pushed backwards and her hand resting loosely on her thighs. ‘I still remember when you were a tiny little girl. You and my daughter, Hannah, would fight to sit on my laps. I’d give you biscuit …

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writing

HOW TO CREATE A WRITING ROUTINE THAT WORKS

Passion is important when kicking off a writing career but it is not enough to land you great writing gigs or bring to pass your dream of becoming a successful writer. There must be some sort of routine in your life for that to happen. See it this way. Imagine, you are an employee of …

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BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED- EPISODE 4

Click to read Episode 3 Tomi’s thoughts ran in one direction. What was it Femi wanted to talk to her about? Was he finally going to ask her the question she’d been waiting to hear him say for the past five months? She’d never forget the day Becky paid her a visit two months after …

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BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED- EPISODE 3

Click to read Episode 2 Femi opened his eyes, squinting at the light that shone from the ceiling above. For one moment, he forgot where he was. His eyes stopped at a man snoring beside him. He jerked backwards. Who is this? He rubbed his sleepy eyes and peered closer at the man. Rotimi. ‘What’s …

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Bible Study

ARE YOU UNDER THE LAW OR IN CHRIST

Some years ago, I had a misconception about the law of Moses. I believed that the law in itself,- the ten commandments, ceremonial, moral laws- was evil and deadly. Not until I stumbled on Romans 7:12. Wherefore the law is holy, and the commandment holy, and just, and good. Romans 7:12 That scripture made me …

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BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED- EPISODE 2

Click here to read Episode 1 ‘Hey, what are you thinking about?’ Femi raised his head to find his sister standing at the door. He glanced at the clock on the wall. It was noon already? Had he been sitting there for so long? He rubbed his hand over his face and stretched out his …

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relationship

WHEN THE DESIRE TO HAVE SEX BECOMES OVERWHELMING

Recently, I published an article on How to control your sexual urges as a Christian single. It is a detailed post that proffers practical guidance when it comes to making the right decisions with our bodies as Christians. Few weeks after publishing that article, another salient question arose in my heart after counselling a young …

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